Module 8 Question: Television families often portray a
variety of different parenting styles. Choose a television family and classify
the kinds of parents according to the styles provided in the text (authoritative,
authoritarian, permissive, and neglectful.) Then describe the children in these
families. Answer the following questions: 1. What kinds of challenges do these
children face? How do they deal with them? 2. What kinds of things challenge
these parents? How do they respond? 3. To what extent do the children’s
activities and behaviors seem to result from their parenting?
One family that stars on television
that portrays different parenting styles is the Heck family from the show, “The
Middle.” The parents in this show Frankie and Mike both have different styles
of parenting. Frankie the mother, has more of a permissive type of parenting
style because she loves her children and her husband, but she doesn’t always
have everything figured out. On the other hand, her husband Mike shows a more
authoritarian side because he loves his wife and kids, but might not always
show it, but he knows how to keep his household under control. There are three
children in the show and they are, Axl, Sue, and Brick. Axl is the eldest son
who is a teenager who basically is the “meathead jock” of the family. He is a
typical teenage boy and he always eats his family out of house and home, and
also in his free time walks around in his underwear. He doesn’t always listen
or have his parents trust. Sue Heck is the only daughter in the family and she
has not quite found herself yet. She hasn’t found what she is good at, for she
always fails spectacularly at whatever she tries, but one thing she doesn’t
fail at is putting in effort. Last but not least, Brick is the youngest son,
and he is known inside and out of the household for doing some odd behavior. He
is very smart and helps his mom often with a car sale. All of the children
handle what happens with good intentions. I feel as if though problems that
arise with the parents include, how to handle a teenage boy who practically
does nothing but play sports, and eats food, and how to give him a boost of
some sort of motivation to do something. They might not always know what to say
or how to respond to a daughter that always fails at everything she tries, and
sometimes they are left speechless on what to say to their youngest son because
he is so smart. I feel as if since the parenting styles vary between Frankie
and Mike they might not always see eye to eye, therefore the children do not
know how to respond.